This is an interesting topic. We knew that men and wemen speak equally, but the style and the way female get conversation across are different from male do. I think it is definitely true. I always saw my brothers and almost all my male friends talk about general topic. I really do not understand why they do not want to talk about themselves or why they do not express thier feeling. ALWAYS say "It is OK". Male are really afarid of being interior, and they do not accept that female do better than male. I think they have too much self-esteem. To contrast, female communicate by sharing, understanding, and support. Female accept people's idea and share their own idea.
In my point of view, I like how he opened the topic by giving the joke. Then, this lecture was presented too fast and too long. Also, he moved his position too much. As a result, I felt too tired to concentrate on the lecture. However, general idea of the topis was understood well. The lecturer organized the idea very well and explain clear enough.
I have a question about the example in the last part of lecture. It is about how male and female communicate in the workplace. We knew they both communicate in different style, but in reality the style they act has influence themself a lot in the world of business. Male always react strongly, no harmony nor negotiation, but do male think that their employees might be suffering becuase of the boss' s language? Of course, no company would want to lose their valuable employees. Therefore, Are male going to change the way they communicte to thier subordinate in order to retain the employee' s feeling and their idea?
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Yeah, you have good question!
I am also wondering if the male boss might hurt female subordinate by their bold language or behavior...
Hi!
Thanks for your comments about my little lecture. Good question, sorry I can't answer it, but certainly the situation you bring up must happen at times. Please see my blog for a reply to some other issues you and your classmates have brought up.
schlopan.blogspot.com
Scott
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